SEX AND SELF DISCIPLINE

 SEX AND SELF DISCIPLINE 

It baffles me when I hear ladies say, he got what he wanted, and has jilted me. 

My dear, what you presented to him was what he got from you. Don't boast with your sex style, there are thousand and one out there that are professionals in the bed than you. Mind you, gone are those days when you use sex to lure a man into marriage. 

Creativity, ingenuity, prudent, hard work, and visionary woman can win a man's heart than Hot and romantic sex that will fade away like the morning daw ones the libido is off. 

Don't think that men has forgotten to quickly the saying that goes " behind every successful man,  there is a woman" it didn't say, "behind a successful man,  there is a romantic woman"

"woman"  in this context entails a helper, home maker, comforter, companion, soul mate, partner, consoler, supporter, and a pet. 

Nowadays sex or food doesn’t keep a man anymore.

Sister girl, inner peace does. Who said men doesn't need to be adored or pet at some point? 

No matter how tough a man's heart is, there is this soft spot in him that can melt or humble him to a toddler which only a virtuous woman can spot. Every heart has a key to unlocking it. 

To be a man is not a day job. 

These men go through a lot too, they act strong outside but inside they just want to tell it all out, but to who?

The pains and ridicule that they face in their various life endeavours is nothing to write home about, insults, ignominy, ridicules, disappointment, and deprivation. Yet they stand strong. What they need at that moment is a romantic words of encouragement and wisdom from whom they call their partner. 

Marriage doesn’t cure lust, if it did adultery wouldn’t exist. Ask yourself,  why is it that despite all your romantic body,  twist and styles in the bed, your man still go out there asking for more? 

FOR MAN AND WOMEN

 Self-control is still a requirement. Lust doesn’t care if you are married or single.

You may be Solomon in wisdom or David in praise or Abraham in faith or Joshua in war but if you are not Joseph in discipline, you will end up like Samson in destruction...